Back, Sack or Crack?

Posted by on Jun 18, 2014 in Blog | 12 Comments
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A gorgeous, recently divorced, friend of mine told me, “I’ve been off the market for ten years. Back when I was dating, it seemed that most men, and many women, went natural down there. Now, I’m amazed … it seems like everyone just prefers nothing at all.”
I took a sip of my Pimm’s Cup and said, “Everybody’s watching way too much porn.”
She grinned, revealing perfect Spanish teeth, and continued, “I went to get waxed, and the women left a little tiny strip … but, when I looked down, it reminded me of Hitler … so I had her take it all off.”

Clearly, Nazi Germany is not the reaction most of us seek when tidying up our naughty bits.

A friend/collector of mine owns Lonni’s Punani, a renowned waxing salon in San Francisco (no, I’m NOT making this up. Her menu is above). Lonni boasts a large clientele of both men and women. When she opened her studio, she asked to borrow a few pieces to hang in the space, including this one:

NOW, Every Bit Of It, acrylic on canvas, 40"x30", Stuart Sheldon

NOW, Every Bit Of It, acrylic on canvas, 40″x30″, Stuart Sheldon

Notice the detail:

NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW

NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW

To return the favor, she offered me any service I wanted, any time. I didn’t act on her offer for years, then one day, for kicks, I decided to check it out. She told me, for men, the most popular services were “back, sack & crack.” I have no hair on my back … and no thanks on the sack. That left crack. On the menu, it reads aptly, “Just the Bum.”

“Spread em,” Lonni requested, as she prepared dollops of hot wax with some kind of spatula. I obeyed (masking humiliation) and, moments later, for the very first time since Carter was president, my bottom was smooth as river stones.

Before

Before

After

After

The sensation resembled that almost minty tingle a man gets on his cheeks after applying aftershave. Only, this was not really the cheeks, if you know what I mean. I kind of dug it.

Since leaving the Bay Area, my waxing days have waned. However, I do mow the front lawn from time to time.

My wife likes to regularly point out my grooming needs. For example, I consider bushy out-of-control eyebrows to be a sign of erudition and character. But, where I see wisdom and wit, she sees only a filthy Andy Rooney.

So … off come the errant brows from time to time. 

Picture this, ladies. You’re at a bar enjoying a much-deserved cold beverage after a long day, when a handsome gent sits down next to you and orders a Jack and Coke. You are not there to meet anyone, just to indulge a moment of solitude … but you’re open to meeting a handsome stranger, if only for the conversation. The gent looks over at you and gives a friendly smile, not leering, not intruding … just acknowledging that you are neighbors for the moment. You smile back … and brush a loose strand of hair from your face.

Then, as you glance down demurely, you notice his fingernails. Dirty, long, ragged, a bit pointy, clearly, disregarded. What does that do to the vibe?

Just like an untamed bush, it’s amazing how much a few bits of keratin reveal about a person. At best, long nails on a guy scream sketchy, lazy, dirty, clueless. At worst … grifter, cocaine, kidnap. Basically, unless you’re Jimmy Page or some other badass stringed instrument virtuoso, the long fingernail rule for men is simple – DON’T.

Nails, brows, ear hair … all you men out there … clearly, it makes sense to tidy up the parts of our bodies we share with the world AND the parts we share with our romantic VIPs.

They don’t call us the GROOM for nothing. 

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12 Comments

  1. Arthur Sheldon
    June 19, 2014

    …………. and for you aviary enthusiasts:
    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”.

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  2. Sandra
    June 19, 2014

    I’m forwarding this to my husband, not that he needs to be reminded, butt just to get his goat-ee. Thanks for the laugh!

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  3. Martha Louise Hunter
    June 20, 2014

    Why, Stuart … You little scamp, you !! So inappropriate. So tasteless. So awesome!!

    Here’s my fave thing to wax –/ my face. How this got started, you ask? (I didn’t just imagine that, right?)
    My MIL was one of those unfortunate little ladies with thinning hair — the bane of her existence. Couple of holiday seasons ago, her hair had miraculously filled in a ton, & I’m like, what the foo are you using? Liquikelp, she said. Write that down… Comes in bottle with eye dropper.

    Not got some. Soon new hair sprouted @ my hairline. My widows peak got longer Soon I was Eddie Munster meets Planet of the Apes. I’m telling you, I needed to shave my forehead. Next thing, I looked in the mirror & back stared Barry Gibb. That’s when I began face waxing , & although I poured the liquikelp down the sink , I cannot abide face fuzz.
    Sorry for my verbosity. I’m on line. @ the DMV getting my license renewed. Egads

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    • Stuart Sheldon
      June 20, 2014

      You can write me from the DMV anytime about removing facial hair any old time. How sexy!

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      • martha louise hunter
        June 21, 2014

        okay – question. I was just looking @ michael jordan above.

        so, you’re telling me that he actually has hair? whatttt?

        there’s actually men out there who shave their heads because they think it looks good??? well, that’s stupid. because it doesn’t.

        I thought it was just the cry-uncle for bald dudes

        & about scalping the front yard? excuse me for saying so, but i think it’s just wrong — i mean… what’s up with wanting to have sex with something/someone who looks like a child down there?

        they put people in jail for that, right?

        just sayin’…..

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        • Stuart Sheldon
          June 21, 2014

          1. MJ did, in fact, cry uncle (love that term) as his hairline receded. And the dude looks great bald. Is there anything he can’t do masterfully?
          2. My front yard is far from scalped. Just trimmed to let the breezes blow through ;)

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  4. mark Mark Lacy
    June 25, 2014

    Sure am glad that I did not miss this one, for SO many reasons… hilarious, truthful, twisted, there’s a little bit of everything from everyone :)

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    • Stuart Sheldon
      June 25, 2014

      Thanks Mark! Now go get waxed.

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      • mark Mark Lacy
        June 25, 2014

        That is actually the funniest part of all. Have you noticed that “we” are the early adapters and trend setters and that “You” follow. We went off waxing and sculpting and colognes YEARS ago — what is current is HAIR and smell au naturelle :)

        Tats will soon be out too…..

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        • Stuart Sheldon
          June 25, 2014

          Funny … I am seriously thinking about a tat right now. I am so not on the cutting edge.

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          • mark Mark Lacy
            June 25, 2014

            that was a GREAT belly laugh, all things considered… :)

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